- (transitive) often followed by with:
to place (oneself) purposely in the favour (of another)
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in•gra•ti•at•ing
(in grā′shē ā′ting),USA pronunciation adj.
in•gra′ti•at′ing•ly, adv.
WordReference Random House Learner's Dictionary of American English © 2026- charming;
agreeable;
pleasing. - deliberately meant to gain favor:an ingratiating manner.
- ingratiate + -ing2 1635–45
in•gra•ti•ate /ɪnˈgreɪʃiˌeɪt/USA pronunciation
v. [~ + oneself], -at•ed, -at•ing.
in•gra•ti•a•tion /ɪnˌgreɪʃiˈeɪʃən/USA pronunciation n. [uncountable]See -grat-.
WordReference Random House Unabridged Dictionary of American English © 2026- to make (oneself ) favored by others, esp. by falsely acting pleasant:trying to ingratiate himself with the boss.
in•gra•ti•a•tion /ɪnˌgreɪʃiˈeɪʃən/USA pronunciation n. [uncountable]See -grat-.
in•gra•ti•ate
(in grā′shē āt′),USA pronunciation v.t., -at•ed, -at•ing.
in•gra′ti•a′tion, n.
in•gra•ti•a•to•ry
(in grā′shē ə tôr′ē, -tōr′ē),USA pronunciation adj.
- to establish (oneself ) in the favor or good graces of others, esp. by deliberate effort (usually fol. by with):He ingratiated himself with all the guests.
- Latin in grātiam into favor, after Italian ingraziare. See in, grace, -ate1
- 1615–25; perh.
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'ingratiating' also found in these entries (note: many are not synonyms or translations):
bootlick
- cloying
- courtier
- courtly
- hail-fellow-well-met
- honeyed
- insinuation
- nice
- nicey-nicey
- obsequious
- on
- saccharine
- silken
- smarmy
- smooth-faced
- soft
- unlikely