WordReference Random House Learner's Dictionary of American English © 2025
dith•er /ˈdɪðɚ/USA pronunciation  
n. [countable*  singular;
a + ~]
v. [no object]
WordReference Random House Unabridged Dictionary of American English © 2025a + ~]
- a state of excitement or agitated fear:in a dither about what to do.
 
v. [no object]
- to act without will;
be hesitant:He was dithering and wouldn't make up his mind unless forced to. 
dith•er 
(diᵺ′ər),USA pronunciation n. 
v.i.
 dith′er•er, n. 
dith′er•y, adj.
            - a trembling;
vibration. - a state of flustered excitement or fear.
 
v.i.
- to act irresolutely;
vacillate. - British Terms[North Eng.]to tremble with excitement or fear.
 
- 1640–50; variant of didder (late Middle English diddere); compare dodder
 
dith′er•y, adj.